Wonderful father

Nowadays there is a great cry for wonderful fathers. Fathers in every family should respond to the invitation of upheaval of the degrading society. Fathers should act as the father should act, for the father is the figure of authority in every household. Father should neglect their importance as an individual who leads the family. Even though, father’s effort is neglected by many who tries to destroy the important function of family, let not this be the reason that they would stop in continuing to carry their family to a morally and wholesome society. Father should step up and be a firm individual who will protect his family from all immoral and corrupt idealism of some cruel people.

Sadly, in the time past, fathers as one have been pointless in our society; they remain low and neglectful of their sole responsibility. They have forsaken their home and let their wives to raise offspring by themselves just because they lost the sense of responsibility, they themselves has been affected from the vast propaganda of the society. And also even has been faithful to their family and that have keep on at home have over and over again neglected the main significant obligation of fathers and that is to be the chief, model, figure, principal, mentor, priests or leader in the home towards a rightful living.

The most trends today is to address about 'money' or 'careers' rather than 'parents' or 'fathers', some father is much distracted in giving quality time for his family. He is swayed from the essential thing the family wants, a true and genuine love. Populaces frequently say that for the most part of life in raising their kids is to offer them tons of love, something with the aim of every parent that they can do, not considering of whether they are a father or a mother. On the other hand, there are also numerous ways that the fathers can convey only one of its kind strengths to their relationships with their children by giving time to show the real and affectionate love to his family.

Nevertheless, the father’s effort cannot be denied. The only problem is fathers are confused of the various methods that world has to offer, they should mind the core and vital thing. As they have said love without action is like a smoke that in a matter of time it will be gone in the wind. So taking action is the key to a better family. Being a father is not a game; it requires your time and devotion.

Wonderful fathers are in need today; because they are the only people have the heart to navigate their family to a wonderful place of unity. A wonderful father is always giving love at any cost, he don’t mind himself more than his family. A wonderful father is a provider of every needs of his family, he will not let each member of his family to suffer from pain of negligence but his family can trust him at all time.

So let this coming Father’s Day Celebration be an honoring day for the wonderful father out there who is the true hero of the family, children must be prepared in giving this day a wonderful experience for their father, and that their father will be glad as well as encouraging him to be as wonderful father as he is. With a heart of thankfulness; children should celebrate the Father’s Day with thanksgiving as well. Make this day a wonderful day for your wonderful father, tell him again and again how wonderful he is.

The man who is caring

You cannot find such a man who is caring in this whole wide world than the one you can find inside your home and you are calling him father. This man is the one who truly cares for your being; no matter what you do a father is always there to support you.

In times of your fearful days he will always be a protecting father. A father is always there to protect his children even if it requires his own life he will not hesitate to give it just for the sake of his children. Recently, in the month of May, the world was amazed by a father who rescued his child from sure death even though the penalty of his heroic act is broken limbs. A father always ready to take the risk, he will never let his children to be harmed that easy out a fight.

The father is the engineer of building a secure and fireproof home. He will make the measurement of his action in accord to the well-being of his family. He will build the foundation with love so that in every storm of discord will come his family will stand firm and be a solid fortress of unity. He will put the finest material of faithfulness so that his family will not suffer the fire of doubt. In addition, a father will polish this home with respect so that he can provide a morale and dignified family in the society.

A caring father always mind his family, he will not let the enemy which is ready try to tear down the laid foundation. A caring father will not let his family to starve from the quality time that he has and always suffer to give his very precious time to the family. He is devoted to his work as well as to his responsibility as a father, for he knows how important it is to balance everything for the sake of his family. A caring father will always be on time as he promised to be. He will not let down his children from their expectations and in whatever activities of his children he will be a supportive father and encourages them to give their best in those activities. He is always being understanding to his children and tries to check them out if they are doing fine either at home or in school.

Lastly, a caring father to his family will not put all responsibilities to his wife alone, but will try his very best even in acting as a mother to their children. He never allows that his spouse will be drifted away by the current of problems but always present his shoulder to be a pillow of comfort to soothe his wife and give his ears from the groaning of her heart. It may sound so poetic but eventually a caring father will always be in rhythm for his family, never been bored in every talk.

So this coming Father’s Day Celebration, give a melody of love to the fathers who don’t stop in caring and relentlessly give their love by sharing their precious time to the children. Let this day be your sharing of time to remind them how caring and loving they are. Give them your finest smile and let them hear you saying the sweetest word that they could ever hear that day. Let them know how caring and loving they are by giving a tight hug. A father that could experience such affirmation in that day will be encouraged more. So in encourage your caring father this coming Father’s Day.

Don’t be distracted by the party, gatherings or even in foods, the important is that your father feels that to be your father is greatly appreciated and you are proud of them. This day is for them and a change for you to say again how much you love them. It would be senseless if we neglect the history of why Father’s Day comes to our calendars. Nevertheless, though the main actor in this day is our fathers but the scene would be lacking if the supporting characters will be missing.

And let it be that honoring your father in this day be memorable each year. We agreed that appreciating our father must be every, yes! It must be, but let this 19^th of June be the culminating of your thankfulness to your father. Thank them not only for what they have done but appreciate them for who they are, Father.

The first Father’s day

For everyone we considered that the first Father’s day was when we see the light of this world. While we shouted our first cry the first person who was excited in our existence was our father. With eyes filled with joy, our father was almost shaking as he first got hold of us. So the question is what/when/who started the father’s day in the honor of our father.

The first idea of children honoring their father was started in Spokane, Washington. While listening to a Mother’s Day sermon in 1909 a woman by the name of Sonora Smart Dodd conceived the idea for Father's Day, she thought that it would be biased for her that only the mothers will be honored by children while the captain of each and every home be forgotten in silence.

She was raised and nurtured by William Jackson Smart her father after her mother died, Sonora felt the need to appreciate her father and to let him know how special he was to her. Her father gave her the parental guidance and loves her so much and made sacrifices in order to give the ideal comfort for her, in her eyes she view her father to be a courageous, selfless, and loving man. The First Father’s Day celebration in Spokane, Washington was held on the 19^th of June, 1910. This was possible because Sonora made the effort to celebrate the first Father’s Day celebration on the birthday of her father.

In 1926, the National Father's Day Committee was created in New York City for they seen the relevance of celebrating the Father’s day, because they themselves wants to express their gratefulness to their father. Father's Day was honored and recognized by a Joint Resolution of Congress in 1956. In 1972, President Richard Nixon, authored the permanent national observance of Father's Day that is to be held on the third Sunday of June. So Father's Day was made possible by the a grateful daughter who thought that her father and all fathers deserved to be honored for a day as we honor our mothers on Mother’s Day.

Time may change and for almost a century the message of Father’s day is never change even a bit. We as children should be thankful to our fathers for they deserved a much appreciation from you, not only on father’s day but in everyday life as we meet our fathers. Don’t waste a change to pay a thank you to your father, you may find it hard to say but action will be sufficient to let them know how much you appreciate them for the good things that they have done, and even to the tears and joy that you experienced, let them know that you cherish those moments with them and that you are bliss to have them as your father. Remember the first concept why we celebrate this event.

Don’t be distracted by the party, gatherings or even in foods, the important is that your father feels that to be your father is greatly appreciated and you are proud of them. This day is for them and a change for you to say again how much you love them. It would be senseless if we neglect the history of why Father’s Day comes to our calendars. Nevertheless, though the main actor in this day is our fathers but the scene would be lacking if the supporting characters will be missing.

And let it be that honoring your father in this day be memorable each year. We agreed that appreciating our father must be every, yes! It must be, but let this 19^th of June be the culminating of your thankfulness to your father. Thank them not only for what they have done but appreciate them for who they are, Father.

The father’s legacy

Building a legacy as a father is very important; this will impact generation from generations of your children. So all fathers are strongly advice that he should build a legacy which result in a good and inspiring idealism in every children he has, that they will also treasure and pass on into their own children.

For instance, if you as a father used to beat and knock down your spouse and your children see it or even hearing it will also follow your footsteps. Even you can observe it, try to reminiscence the way of your father in dealing his family, you will be surprised that you and your father have in common in dealing the issues in the family, in relationship with your spouse, your treatment to your own children, or even in the way of making decision and resolving problems.

As a father, be sensitive in this issue for what you have sowed that will also you reap. Consider that your children are learning a lot and even bad things she/he will tend to imitate. Be aware that the eyes and ears of your children are monitoring especially to the fathers for they know that the father has the authority in most household. Also, don’t underestimate the ability of the instinct of your children it may be as deadly as the venom of a snake.

Eventually, building the right legacy is as easy as one, two, and three. First, put the humility of love so that you will not be discouraged for it is a long and slow process. Next, communicate to your family; be honest to them about your weakness and strength. Ask them to support you in your endeavors in making things right and well for the family. The most important is that you should be willing to listen to them be humble to them and find some feedbacks about how you handle the family; in due time change the cons that you collected from your dialogue with the family and strategize in implementing the amendments. Lastly, apply the real role as a father to them so that they can see the legacy that you are trying to build in order that they imitate it and apply it in their own family someday.

Children, consider the very effort of your father in building their legacy. Though sometimes they fail in doing so but this is not because our fathers are irresponsible rather because we as children lack in willingness to communicate, appreciate and admire our father. Fathers too are human; they need some fuel of encouragement especially from his children. Remember, they fail we fail.

We children give more time to others than to our family, we are stuffed by friends who steal our quality time that is due our father. It is not bad to have friends and other stuff, unless those things are our reason in drifting away from the presence of our loving father. Again a loving father is always open arms to receive you whatever, whenever, and whosoever happen to you, so do not be irritated from the sound of reprimands that lovingly coming from your father. Instead, they deserve a thank you for their tireless effort in making a good legacy in his family and that the father wants to share to us as their children.

This father’s day, let us celebrate the undying great legacy which our fathers have been building for us. Give the warmest greeting that you could ever imagine just to let know how much you appreciate your father for his loving effort. Let him get what he deserved this coming father’s day.

Loving yet authoritative

In each home there is a figure of strength, firmness, and stability. He is the strength against the outside force that will try to wreck havoc to every peaceful home. He is firm in making decision to up hold the welfare of his family. And He is the stability from the shaking of each problem the family will be facing. This is no other than a father and it is not just a father but a loving father indeed.

This loving father will be the strength of the household. He will stand to face any invasion that will try to demolish the relationship of the family. He will establish his family with love for he knows that love is an enduring thing. His fortress would be his home that is engineered in love; he will not entertain any attempt of rebellion because he knows he had established his home in love, if there is any, he will not be harsh but check it with kind and a loving approach.

This loving father will be firm in his decision for a better household. He will position himself firm to every blow of desperation from the outside force which will try to demoralize the family. He will establish firmly his family with profuse love so that his family will endure up to its ages. His stand will be strong against the attempt of destructing the moral principle that he embedded in his home. He will not allow premature decision that sooner ends up into naught.

This loving father will be stable in his household from the magnitude of fear and doubt. His stability will be known to every member and will erase their fear from the cliché of the corrupt mentality of others. His stability is due to his effort in establishing his family in love for love conquers all fears and stay forever. So in love, he will layout his plan for the very sake of his family.

A loving father will not abuse his authority instead he will use it in establishing a lasting, firm and stable family. This is possible because he does not only command but well in workgroup, and he leads with authority while he work with humility. He is not tyrant in his ego but always considerate to the weak member of his family, teaching and sharing his ways in a peaceable manner and yet in his agreeable decision he would be as strict as he could be.

A loving father is approachable and ready to listen to his children’s voice of fear and doubt. He is not irritated by questions of hopelessness but instead gives the assurance of a better solution. He is not easily angered by the whims of the member of his household but he is loving enough to authoritatively reprimand that person and with a loving hand he corrects every wrong which is committed by the member of his household.

In this coming June 19th let us celebrate the Father’s Day together with our loving and yet authoritative father, don’t fail to say your warm greetings to your awesome father. Be thankful always to your loving father for he is relentless endeavor to uphold strength, firmness, and stability that he put in the family. Be grateful for the things that your father has been sharing to you for the past years this coming Father’s Day. Have that day an atmosphere of thankfulness and you warm greetings will be the augmented approach to your loving father who he is your source of strength, a mentor of firmness, and a model of stability. Let this day will be memorable to you and your father.

I’m proud of my father

As you were existing in your early child age, you learned to walk and talk. The greatest moment ever be for a father is when his child say the first word that address him, “dada”, then a laughter in the heart that can’t be apprehended. The moment became more intense when your child said it for the second time around. Then you will be totally convinced that your child really know you as his/her father. The greetings of smile of a child to his father would be the greatest account on the father’s notebook.

The child is now ready for another step in the future. As the child has been introduced to the classroom of toddlers, the child’s fear and hesitation engulfed the thought of that child. The father then encourage the child to take the challenge on, though, the mother is the front-liner that always pusher her child to be the person of dignity and always on guard, ready to take the rescue but the indispensable approval of the father brings greater impact to child poor view of life, also it will give assurance of peace within the child’s heart. For a child, a father is a big superhero, and the greatest fan of this superhero would be his own child.

Here comes the children’s party in this tiny classroom, the child at first doesn’t know what to expect from the event. But as they enter the room, where the child is carried on the loving arms of his father, the child’s heart becomes so awaiting for the next event and ignites the child attitude to participate in the said party. Being assured of the tight presence of the father the child is now more focused in having fun and showing to the other kids that she/he is glad and proud of the watchful father who are there to cheer and clap for his child. The presence of a father brings peace and security to a child, being proud of his/her father that boost the heart of the faint. The more the father gives time to his child, the more bonding, the more laughter, and the greater relationship that tie between the father and a child. It is never waste of time to share to a child the father’s precious time but instead it would be the quality time that a father can have.

As the party wind down and the fragile strength of the child is becoming fainter. And asleep on the shoulder of his father not knowing what is next, perhaps the important thing to the child’s very mind that she/he is secure wherever they will go. Nothing brings security than to be on the side of a father, you can’t ever compare it to any assuring entity in this world than to be in the arms of a father.

Nothing to compare from the feeling of being proud of your father, the concept of Father’s Day is based on honoring the loving effort and untiring support of a father. Saying thank you to our father is not an option that you can select randomly, but it would be a must to every child and a responsibility to be done, duty to fulfill, also a task to carry out. Let it be a memorable celebration this June for fathers because they deserve far more than others to receive our warmest gratitude. So make this day as pleasing to them as possible as you can and that they will feel the honor and the gratitude that you give as a gift for their benevolent action towards their children.

Greeting your father a happy father’s day

As adage says, the only constant in this world is change. With the advancement of new technology and inventions emerged in our world today, greeting your father a “happy father’s day” is just like a one pick up of your phone. You can send your greetings through text messages, email, postcards, through social networking sites such as “facebook” and “twitter” or even in uploading your own videos just to say how special your father is. All of these are just one of the clear manifestations why greeting a “happy father’s day” is one of the most priceless statement a child can give to their father.

Family is said to be the heart and veins of society, also as the basic unit in our community a family should be modeled by a supporting and generous father. Through this small community the respect, humility, social-accountability and spiritual formation are developed. The mainstream prime mover of a developing family is designated to a father, so the father has the vital role to comply and we have to consider that. He is responsible and has the valor to protect his family by all means and ways. He is also assigned to mold the formation of each members of his family towards the future. Through his hands and power depends on the totality of the individual’s cognitive, affective and psychomotor development. With these strenuous responsibility bestowed on him, he is deserving to receive and to feel the special attention from us. Life has been luckier for we have given a father that always there to substantiates the needs of his family. Some people are lucrative enough to extend their love to their father. In some countries, they just make a simple letter or written on a piece of paper to write their intentions. Others draw a complete picture of a family with all the praises and gratitude. Countries like in the Southeast Asia, they make some prayers in their tomb if their father had passed away. They put lighted candles, candies and ornamental plants to commemorate their contributions and life changing experience that they had brought to their lives.

Every country, beliefs, culture or even generations have their own way of celebrating Fathers Day and greeting their father in that day. It is always a good idea to greet your father a happy Father’s day in your own traditional way; it would be meaningful to him than other method around. The point here is how you will say your true gratitude and appreciation to your father that day. The important thing is you say the true value of his effort in a meaningful way. You can be artistic as you can, show to your father your effort. Do not forget that this day is for your loving father that always been there for you and your family.

So this coming June 19^th, you should celebrate the Father’s Day together with your loving and ever caring father, don’t fail to declare your warmest compliments to your respected father. Be appreciative always to your loving father for he is worthy of your thanksgiving for he commits his own life for the wellbeing of his family. Be obliged to tell the nicest thing or experiences that your father has been sharing to your family for the past years, let him be happy this coming Father’s Day because of the artistic or simple yet touchy greetings that your father could have. Have this date marked for the very special person in your family, your father. Let this day will be unforgettable moment to your family and your father.

The Father who fixes

In a family, brokenness is always possible, damage occurs within the circle of bonds. Misunderstanding and misleading of words that can ruin the warm ties of each individual is threatening to dissolve strong relationship of the members of particular family. Loop wholes are the detouring agents that sway the affectionate communications to each other. The result? It would be the worst thing a family can have a broken home.

But a fixing father is always on guard, he never let anything to distract his family. A fixing father can easily notice the symptoms and as early as it is yet flourishing the fixing father will check it and find the remedy so that these unwanted agents will not do further damage. This is his commitment to protect his family from self-distracting and preventing such awful scene that can ever happen to a family. A fixing father will always be carrying the tools for fixing leaks; these leaks will be the cause of relationships to pass through, and the happiness can be dried up in a family if these will not be repaired. So the father will use the tool of love to repair it and seal it with the plaster of unity.

A fixing father is always on call and he has the easy hotline to dial up, he never be too late nor be early as he know that his service very in need. This kind of father always has the time to respond from the groaning of his family. He is always on time, in responding to a call of urgency by the family.

A fixing father is not selfish, he always cater first his family and make it his own priority. This father knew that his family is his life, so he will be in the business of securing his family. He will never let his family see that he is tired on them but has always the mode of connecting warmly to his own family. Delighting to see the healthiness of his family and cherishing to the soundness of every member of his realm. A fixing father will never be the reason of the problem; he will not do a thing that can destroy his own life.

A father who fixes is always gentle towards his family. He has the hand which his family can trust. He is never being hasty in every issue his family can have but always based his decision on the consensus from his family. He will always check the condition of the family, he never waits for a call but instead as far as he could he will be in a maintenance routine towards his family. Giving no change to the elements that can corrode the bonding that he established in his family.

A father who fixes can be trusted in his services in fixing the brokenness of his family. He cannot stop thinking the welfare of his family; he will never let a cloud of doubt engulf in his family, doubting that he is not able to provide the fix.

In this coming Father’s Day, don’t fail to say your gratefulness to your fixing father. Offer them the warm hug and kiss to let them know how thankful you are in fixing the problem which tried to dismantle the relationship of the family. Say to him that you appreciate what he had done in giving time to fix the problems even he is busy searching for food to his family. Be sincere to your father in reminding him that you recognized his effort for his family. Be proud of the things your father has done for the past year this coming Father’s Day.

Father of an infant

When the children are in their infant years, this would be the ignoring times of most fathers. Oftentimes, we children forget the great and heroic effort of the father because we are only more focused to our mothers. It is sad but true, can you still remember an act from your father while you are still a baby? I could still dimly remember my mother used to carry when I started to cry. It would be a routine for my mother in doing so, since then when I cry and then someone would carry me, my instinct would be signaling that the one who is carrying me is my mother even though it is my father. And when I cry because I’m hungry I would be biased thinking that only my mother can give me milk to appease my thirst, but it never come to my mind that my father is always there guarding me and even doing hands-on whenever it is necessary.

We failed to recognize the voice of our father often when we are still a child, we mostly cling to our mother than to our father, and we are more excited in hearing the voice of our mothers than to our fathers. We mostly get to sleep when we hear the humming of our mother than to our father. We smiled often to our mother than to our father. We find more security in our mother than in the presence of our father. The list goes on in on, what then is our conclusion? When we were still children, we give more importance to our mother than to our father without knowing the real effort of our father in the backstage. But after all of this negligence of the children to our father, still our father is quite satisfied doing the hard work so that he can assure you a better future, they don’t murmur but always thinking of the helpless baby on the crib, aiming for a better life that the father can give to his children. They are always the hero, the guys on watch cherishing in every smile that we can make and delighting as they can see you breathing for survival.

As a father, you will find it easier even though it is actually hard for you, but if you mind your child’s crying for help and survival, you will surely do everything just to be sufficient in providing the needs of your family. You always do not mind if your child knows your effort or not, as far as they are in good terms then you have a big sigh in relief. Fathers love their children that he just wanted the best thing for his child. A father would be the hardest thing to do on the planet and they can only achieve their role to be the right father if and only if they draw the perfect strength from home. But if their home lack in encouraging the captain of the family then the first person you will sink is the father.

In this coming Father’s Day, don’t fail to say your thankfulness to your father. Share with them your collapsing memoires while you were still a baby, be grateful to him even you always ignore his effort while you were still a baby. Say to him that you appreciate him in what he had done while you were still in the very young age. Do not hesitate to hug them so they can feel your sincerity. Speaks words that can make them smile and be proud of him in everything he has done for you.

Being a father

Every man’s dream is to be a father. No one could ever deny that before you decided to settle down and have a family, you already anticipated your fatherhood. Maybe you set your very plan for this position and sketched your strategy in providing welfare to your family. Being a father is a serious talk, you need to commit and be devoted in performing your part as a father.

Fathering requires a lot of patience and determination to act as the head of the family. Although being a father is a mind-numbing task, but because of your love towards your family being a dad is enjoyable and easy at all! Nothing could replace the role of a father even the very effort of someone could not be compare. It would be a different thing if a father will perform his duty to his family.

A father should provide a wholesome support to his family. A father is not focusing on one thing but the whole welfare of his family.

A father should make the effort to give daily food at the table; of course it should be three times a day provision. Nevertheless, insuring his family to have a healthy diet is not an option to do. A father should provide a safer house conducive to the health of each member of the household. A father should insure proper clothing for his family. Also making sure that everyone is not lacking something materially.

A father should make it sure that he can provide proper education to his children. It is the great treasure a father could give to his children; it would be the primary arsenal of his children in facing this complicated world. As a father, he should know the importance of education for his children’s future.

Importantly, a father should communicate to his spouse in a regular basis. Indeed, a father should also mind of the things, feelings, or her necessities so that a mother is encouraged in doing her duties. For the two are the impetus in having a harmonious family, don’t give any change of being bored with one another but make the effort of intimacy.

Lastly but surely not the least, a father should guide his children to a right spirituality. No one could neglect the power of religion in the lives of people, so it is a vital thing that as a father he can make his children aware about of spiritual things. This also will lead them to proper conduct as an individual. In addition, a father should provide good and moral follow ups in regards to his children’s attitude. He should train his children to be a better citizen and a law abiding people.

To be a father is an arduous task and sometimes the worst thing in life and it is only possible if you lack the initiative and a sense of fatherhood but doing it with love and dedication; you will find it adventurous and exciting with joy and sense of fulfillment in life. The hardest thing in becoming a father is when you lack in savor towards your own family. The worst is when children fail to appreciate and recognize the effort of their loving father.

So in this coming Father’s Day Celebration, children must be organized and with a heart of gratitude celebrate the Father’s Day with their father, making him feel the sense of appreciation for what he have done and not only for the things that he did provide but as a father who loves and cares for his family. Give him a treat that will encourage him more to be a perfect father.